"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's the big deal about Bachelor TV show?

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I am curious about the TV show , the Bachelor.
Why are those women compete against each other fiercely just to date the guy?

What's the big deal about dating the bachelor?

Are these women for real? They look like actresses to me. They also look like models.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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picard said:
I am curious about the TV show , the Bachelor.
Why are those women compete against each other fiercely just to date the guy?

What's the big deal about dating the bachelor?

Are these women for real? They look like actresses to me. They also look like models.
Women's primary reason for going on television show such is this is to get exposure, its a stepping stone for them to get discovered and hopefully make it in Hollywood. What better way to get attention then to appear on television in front of millions!??

Majority of what you see in those so called "reality shows" is contrived and scripted.

The bachleor is supposed to be a so called "big catch" that woman go after. They often select a good looking dude with money. However the joke on those women is the fact that the bachelor almost never ends up marrying any of the women and probably just fvcks a whole lot of them and leaves. You can't blame the guy after all, I mean the show is like a prostitution service for the bachleor by getting him some good looking pvssy to pick and choose from across the country.

In essence the tv show the Bachelor is like Porn for women.
 

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I agree, they are contrived and scripted to an extent, but I would be willing to bet that due to the nature of women that they DO indeed get caught up in the competitive aspect of it and probably do develop feelings for the guy for thsi fact alone.

I was watching one of those goofy chick shows one night "The City" (dont ask me why) and it is blatantly obvious that there are producers or SOMEONE telling members of the cast that other members are talking sh!t about them behind their back just to stir up controversy.
 

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Funny story--

Remember the original Bachelor, Ryan Sutter? My dad is the chief at the fire dept where he works. Has nothing but good things to say about him; I guess he's a super stand-up guy. He's still married to that chick who 'won' on the original show. They have 2 or 3 kids. The guy really doesnt need to work as a firefighter, I guess he makes a ton modeling and doing public appearances and what not.

I think that show is a great case example of competition anxiety. A lot of it is contrived, for sure, but you get a look at how cutthroat competing women can be.

On a side note, 'the Bachelorette' cast is comprised of some of the biggest tools to walk the earth. What self-respecting Man would go on a prime-time t.v. show and compete for ONE woman?! Never compete; let them choose you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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where does the bachelor get the money to marry the girl? is he a millionaire before sign up to the show?
 

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"What's the big deal about Bachelor TV show?"

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Let me break it down into three easily understandable words: RATINGS and REVENUE
Uh all you did was repeat the question.
 

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how do I get to become the bachelor on the show? What kind of sh*t do I have to make up to get on the show?

Does the show make up false history for the bachelor?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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