"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's the best kind of music for making out/setting the mood?

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mecca411

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My computer crashed and I lost my entire mp3 play list. I've got a girl coming over tomorrow (I've been seeing her long-distance for 4 months, already closed the deal) to my place for the first time and I'd like to have some stuff handy for when we're fooling around. Wanted to have some candle in my room and also get some massage oils to give her a nice rub down.

Any ideas to which music or artists would be good to help set the mood? I like some r&b, I know she does too, but also some of the alternative pearl jam kind of stuff. I need to put something together quickly. Thanks.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gonzalo

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Anything by The Chipmonks should get her juices flowing...
 

Panda 2000

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DJ Shadow, Prefuse 73, maybe some house music etc.
I'd never go with Barry White or similar stuff because I just don't like it and it's cheesier than cheese.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eternal

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Do a SEARCH. Really people, is it that hard to do?

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