"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what's the best dating site..?

the thin black duke

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thinking about starting the online thing, but want to know what is the best online site and where have most of you, who do the online thang, have had the most success? :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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the thin black duke said:
thinking about starting the online thing, but want to know what is the best online site and where have most of you, who do the online thang, have had the most success? :cool:

Ive met 8 on match.com. I didnt like 5 of em. 2 didnt like me. 1 worked out but i blew it with stupidity. Out of the 8 tho, 2 were hot, 3 were cute, 2 were not as good lookin as their pic and kinda ugly. 1 was butt ugly, the pic lied big time. Ive gotten tons of screennames, some very cute, a couple i wouldnt meet cuz they seem insane or annoyign and im not just after a lay so i avoided it.

Dont use Yahoo Personals, it sux. Poor quality of women, they dont respond as much either for some reason, and its just not as easy to use as match. Eharmony is an absoulte waste of money, looked into it its retarted. Lavalife doesnt have enuff people in it. Myspace is for kids usually. im 25 i still try once in while on mysapce, but im gettin a lil old for myspace chicks.
 

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adultfriendfinder.com lol.. yea great quality girls on there..

usually the pay sites are the best, and you are most likely to meet women because they are actually paying for the service.

i had pretty decent success on Yahoo Personals.. but I was in an area that didn't have many girls in the 18-24 range.. which kinda limited my choice..

scout it before you pay..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Driven2Succeed said:
...usually the pay sites are the best, and you are most likely to meet women because they are actually paying for the service.
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Like both you and unorthodox said, women on pay sites are typically more serious; they have invested money in hopes of finding the right guy (even if it averages to only $2 a week). What have MySpace members antied up? What have they got to lose? They get tons of attention without having to put up anything more than a picture. However, women on pay sites are more particular (and men should be too) since they have invested money into the venture.
 

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I think it is better to talk to girls in person. Not on a online site like myspace. It doesn't take much skill to get girls interested in you there. The real skill is doing it in real life.
 

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crossboss said:
I think it is better to talk to girls in person. Not on a online site like myspace. It doesn't take much skill to get girls interested in you there. The real skill is doing it in real life.
Yes you are half right. But Dating sites give you opportunity to know more, and the only purpose is to get them out for a real date.

Then there's where you talk to them in person.
 

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I see dating sites in the same way, its just another avenue to meet women, it has nothing to do with your field skills or lack there of, its not the devil nor the ultimate solution.

Personally I prefer to move to meeting IRL asap, chatting via email and actually interacting in person is completely different, and I find spending 5 weeks and 500 emails before actually getting a date extremely annoying and time-wasting!

Personally I find women on dating sites/in personals super pickey and very flakey, maybe becuase they are spoiled for choice, but its still worth a look.
 
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