the thin black duke
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thinking about starting the online thing, but want to know what is the best online site and where have most of you, who do the online thang, have had the most success? 
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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what's the best dating site..?
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the thin black duke said:thinking about starting the online thing, but want to know what is the best online site and where have most of you, who do the online thang, have had the most success?
Ive met 8 on match.com. I didnt like 5 of em. 2 didnt like me. 1 worked out but i blew it with stupidity. Out of the 8 tho, 2 were hot, 3 were cute, 2 were not as good lookin as their pic and kinda ugly. 1 was butt ugly, the pic lied big time. Ive gotten tons of screennames, some very cute, a couple i wouldnt meet cuz they seem insane or annoyign and im not just after a lay so i avoided it.
Dont use Yahoo Personals, it sux. Poor quality of women, they dont respond as much either for some reason, and its just not as easy to use as match. Eharmony is an absoulte waste of money, looked into it its retarted. Lavalife doesnt have enuff people in it. Myspace is for kids usually. im 25 i still try once in while on mysapce, but im gettin a lil old for myspace chicks.
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MYSPACE.COM dummies
unorthodox
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MYSPACE.COM is full of dummies. It is free.
Match.com has to be paid for, so women there are more likely to talk to you and go out.
Yes, match.com - adultfriendfinder.com - mate1.com ...... All allow a free account, sign up, look for quality women - not sluts - sluts want your attention.
http://www.theseductionbible.com/2006/06/06/building-your-online-dating-profile-2/
Match.com has to be paid for, so women there are more likely to talk to you and go out.
Yes, match.com - adultfriendfinder.com - mate1.com ...... All allow a free account, sign up, look for quality women - not sluts - sluts want your attention.
http://www.theseductionbible.com/2006/06/06/building-your-online-dating-profile-2/
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adultfriendfinder.com lol.. yea great quality girls on there..
usually the pay sites are the best, and you are most likely to meet women because they are actually paying for the service.
i had pretty decent success on Yahoo Personals.. but I was in an area that didn't have many girls in the 18-24 range.. which kinda limited my choice..
scout it before you pay..
usually the pay sites are the best, and you are most likely to meet women because they are actually paying for the service.
i had pretty decent success on Yahoo Personals.. but I was in an area that didn't have many girls in the 18-24 range.. which kinda limited my choice..
scout it before you pay..
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Like both you and unorthodox said, women on pay sites are typically more serious; they have invested money in hopes of finding the right guy (even if it averages to only $2 a week). What have MySpace members antied up? What have they got to lose? They get tons of attention without having to put up anything more than a picture. However, women on pay sites are more particular (and men should be too) since they have invested money into the venture.Driven2Succeed said:
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I see dating sites in the same way, its just another avenue to meet women, it has nothing to do with your field skills or lack there of, its not the devil nor the ultimate solution.
Personally I prefer to move to meeting IRL asap, chatting via email and actually interacting in person is completely different, and I find spending 5 weeks and 500 emails before actually getting a date extremely annoying and time-wasting!
Personally I find women on dating sites/in personals super pickey and very flakey, maybe becuase they are spoiled for choice, but its still worth a look.
Personally I prefer to move to meeting IRL asap, chatting via email and actually interacting in person is completely different, and I find spending 5 weeks and 500 emails before actually getting a date extremely annoying and time-wasting!
Personally I find women on dating sites/in personals super pickey and very flakey, maybe becuase they are spoiled for choice, but its still worth a look.