Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ya they are:trouble:Arsinel said:Your not cool, cuz you have alot of sex!
ok lemme break down what I mean when i say "sex with women":Arsinel said:Every time I see someone giving advice on women, they talk about how many hundreds of women they've had sex with. Heck! For all I know, they could be UGs! Your not cool, cuz you have alot of sex!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I do it to idiots who are ruining this forum for everybody by filling up the place with nonsense and knocking all the useful threads out of sight. What kind of impression will new users get when they come here and see all this bullsh*t on the front page?skip2mylou781 said:The Truth - i notice on every single thread, all u do is complain and insult people who didnt even do anything to u
Bvbidd said:Well they are making **** up when they say it on here.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Jealous?? Thats about the funniest thing I've seen you put, although that isn't saying much.skip2mylou781 said:ill agree this thread as useless....and im so happy ur so jealous L777, i dunno who u even are yet ur so brave to make such bold statements about me
<shrugs> "He who laughs last, laughs loudest" LOLskip2mylou781 said:sorry, no more replies to this
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not until you stop taking it up the ass!The Truth said:Stop trolling you insignificant little computer nerd! These stupid threads and replies of yours are not funny! You have no wit and nobody is laughing so quit wasting your time!
Go back to masturbating over Internet porn instead!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.