She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ya they are:trouble:Arsinel said:Your not cool, cuz you have alot of sex!
ok lemme break down what I mean when i say "sex with women":Arsinel said:Every time I see someone giving advice on women, they talk about how many hundreds of women they've had sex with. Heck! For all I know, they could be UGs! Your not cool, cuz you have alot of sex!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I do it to idiots who are ruining this forum for everybody by filling up the place with nonsense and knocking all the useful threads out of sight. What kind of impression will new users get when they come here and see all this bullsh*t on the front page?skip2mylou781 said:The Truth - i notice on every single thread, all u do is complain and insult people who didnt even do anything to u
Bvbidd said:Well they are making **** up when they say it on here.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jealous?? Thats about the funniest thing I've seen you put, although that isn't saying much.skip2mylou781 said:ill agree this thread as useless....and im so happy ur so jealous L777, i dunno who u even are yet ur so brave to make such bold statements about me
<shrugs> "He who laughs last, laughs loudest" LOLskip2mylou781 said:sorry, no more replies to this
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not until you stop taking it up the ass!The Truth said:Stop trolling you insignificant little computer nerd! These stupid threads and replies of yours are not funny! You have no wit and nobody is laughing so quit wasting your time!
Go back to masturbating over Internet porn instead!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.