"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what's she implying?

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So I texted a girl im talking to, to ask if she wanted to come over to watch a movie i rented...her reply was "I'd be willing to go out to a movie if there's anything you wanna see"

what is she implying? any thoughts, i have a few but id like to hear what everyone else has to say about this.

ps. this would be our official 2nd date. but we've been talking quite a lot on the txts.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think she is saying she would rather go to the movie theatre. Maybe, also hiting a movie she has been wanting to see? Maybe, the new sex and the city movie...
 
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verysuave said:
quit texting ALOT
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lol....dude. she texts me a lot. girls text a lot!

and she just texted me that she just likes to go out and she wants to see a horror flick......so thats always :up:
 
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DonS said:
Now the question is why in the hell are you talking "quite a lot" on txt? Be a mystery; be busy attracting other women; etc. If you're not careful, this txt stuff could be your downfall. Call on the phone; set-up a date; get off the phone within 5 minutes; do your DJ gaming in person on the date! Trust me on this one.
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Thanks Don I'll definitely have to start txting less...ill just tell her im running out of txts so then it will have to result in us actually hearing each others voice, besides hearing someones voice is much better than getting a stupid text IMO.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you know, there is nothing wrong with texting at all! everyone text now adays, its a preferable thing to do. but only if you guys are having good converesations when you guys are seeing each other in person... if youre someone who she loves to talk to, then she may just think you're someone who hates the phone, and that's ok.
 
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the point here is to make her FEEL that she isn't the only v@gina in the world without TELLING her
 
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yama600rr said:
you know, there is nothing wrong with texting at all! everyone text now adays, its a preferable thing to do. but only if you guys are having good converesations when you guys are seeing each other in person... if youre someone who she loves to talk to, then she may just think you're someone who hates the phone, and that's ok.
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valid point.
 
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the point here is to make her FEEL that she isn't the only v@gina in the world without TELLING her
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well you could do that and look like a total player to her, which sure some stupid @$$ girls like or just do what some of the others were saying and keep it "mystery style" which makes you look like you are just really busy and other things are going on other than her...you know just keeping conversations light on the phone until you are with her in person, which does the same thing without making you look like a player.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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