"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheGambino

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Tryin to meet this girl who im busy with for a week or so.

im like: going to run this evening joggprincess wanna join, i need some motivation coz im doin a long run

her: what time?

me: 8

her: ok maybe

me: ok let me know

(i chose too say let me know, coz i rushed a bit with her, lot of kino and already kissed her mouth very fast and she showed me that its goin to fast for her)

any thoughts guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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iamnobody

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TheGambino said:
Tryin to meet this girl who im busy with for a week or so.

im like: going to run this evening joggprincess wanna join, i need some motivation coz im doin a long run

her: what time?

me: 8

her: ok maybe

me: ok let me know

(i chose too say let me know, coz i rushed a bit with her, lot of kino and already kissed her mouth very fast and she showed me that its goin to fast for her)

any thoughts guys
maybe = no

Your first text was too long. I would've text something like this:
"Going to run this evening, 6pm, location. Join me, should be fun"
 

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After the maybe: Going at 8. With or without you.
 
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