"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheGambino

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Tryin to meet this girl who im busy with for a week or so.

im like: going to run this evening joggprincess wanna join, i need some motivation coz im doin a long run

her: what time?

me: 8

her: ok maybe

me: ok let me know

(i chose too say let me know, coz i rushed a bit with her, lot of kino and already kissed her mouth very fast and she showed me that its goin to fast for her)

any thoughts guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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iamnobody

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TheGambino said:
Tryin to meet this girl who im busy with for a week or so.

im like: going to run this evening joggprincess wanna join, i need some motivation coz im doin a long run

her: what time?

me: 8

her: ok maybe

me: ok let me know

(i chose too say let me know, coz i rushed a bit with her, lot of kino and already kissed her mouth very fast and she showed me that its goin to fast for her)

any thoughts guys
maybe = no

Your first text was too long. I would've text something like this:
"Going to run this evening, 6pm, location. Join me, should be fun"
 

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After the maybe: Going at 8. With or without you.
 
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