"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Tryin to meet this girl who im busy with for a week or so.

im like: going to run this evening joggprincess wanna join, i need some motivation coz im doin a long run

her: what time?

me: 8

her: ok maybe

me: ok let me know

(i chose too say let me know, coz i rushed a bit with her, lot of kino and already kissed her mouth very fast and she showed me that its goin to fast for her)

any thoughts guys
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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TheGambino said:
Tryin to meet this girl who im busy with for a week or so.

im like: going to run this evening joggprincess wanna join, i need some motivation coz im doin a long run

her: what time?

me: 8

her: ok maybe

me: ok let me know

(i chose too say let me know, coz i rushed a bit with her, lot of kino and already kissed her mouth very fast and she showed me that its goin to fast for her)

any thoughts guys
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maybe = no

Your first text was too long. I would've text something like this:
"Going to run this evening, 6pm, location. Join me, should be fun"
 
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After the maybe: Going at 8. With or without you.
 
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