Well long story short, i met a girl. definite interesting coming from her side. lots of kino involved. shes always having a great time and laughing while with me. my question is, im ready to have my first real relationship, and i plan on asking her after a while but i dont know how to go about it. never asked someone to be my gf before so idont know how to approach it. advice?
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What's my next move?
- Thread starter Oni
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
IceCream
Don Juan
Don't do it, if you really like this girl, dont ask until she literally brings up being exclusive.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Exactly.IceCream said:
Start seeing her two or more times a week, and doing stuff, and it will feel like it to her, then she'll ask.
Yeah i agree. If she wants a relationship you'll know it for sure. (cause she'll request it)IceCream said:
Don't worry about it though, focus your energy on just having fun, and go ahead and have sex with her .(from your post doesn't sound like you've even done that yet) Whatever you do don't be needy for a relationship.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Coming from one "exclusive" relation, I would advice you to never commit to a woman exclusively until you know you are ready. I may never commit until maybe in my late 50s....
Don't ask her to be exclusive. Even if she brings it up, tell her you're not ready to be exclusive and simply enjoy the ride or RUN!
Don't ask her to be exclusive. Even if she brings it up, tell her you're not ready to be exclusive and simply enjoy the ride or RUN!
alright, form what most ppl posted, it seems i have to wait for her to ask for it. will do that. the thing is i thought if u stick around a girl too much without making your move, you enter her friend zone or something like that
JDA70 said:
I agree. We are acting like girls are the enemy. They are human too just like us. How much time do we have to sit around and wait? If the girl likes him and the stuff they do together, she'll definitely say "yes". If she doesn't, she'll say "no, you are boring".
I'd go for it. You wait around and she meets Brad, you're in trouble.
DonJuan11 said:
All were saying is that when a guy has developed himself into a good catch he'll have girls always trying to course him into a relationship. From what he posted it doesn't seem like this girl is doing that. Also wanting to be in a relationship, thinking about how you can "get her to be" your gf etc is coming from the wrong frame of mind in my opinion.
And Oni i think your confused, if your worried about getting into friendship zone. Were not advising you to sit around with her all eager hoping she'll suggest a relationship. You should be already having sex with this girl and should be in a f*uck buddy setup with her right now. If your sexually involved with her then friendzone isn't going to be an issue. Just HAVE SEX with her asap!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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