"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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whats in womens mind

roja

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Men are always thinking of Sex/Money/Politics

Top things women think most of the time
Drama /Relationships
what else ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pie in the Sky

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I think men pretty much think about things related to power and respect.

Women think about all their current relationships. Their life revolves around them.

Both think about sex.
 

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i always have food on my mind.
what do i need to make for dinner... what to eat for lunch...
 

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i always have food on my mind.
what do i need to make for dinner... what to eat for lunch...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm a man, and here's my hierarchy:

1. Money/Business Development/Entrepreneurial Pursuits/Achievement
2. My Mindset itself: Cultivating Self-Determination, Confidence, Courage
3. Living up to my own Standards
4. Sex/hot chicks/further cultivating an abundance of hot poon mentality
 
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Perfect responses

BobMo' said:
Men think about women and women think about themselves.

Desdinova said:
Agreed 100%

Also, women don't usually think like men do. They obsess, dwell, and fantasize.
 

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You can tell how women think by how they speak.

"Then i was with Stacey who bought this dress, oh and i went to the shop, but not the shop where Gemma met that guy, oh that guy hes so cool, he bought Gemma a ring, it was so pretty, and then we saw Emma, not the one with black hair, does my hair look ok? i'm thinking of dyeing it, so anway what was i talking about?"
 

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Sir Juanalot said:
You can tell how women think by how they speak.

"Then i was with Stacey who bought this dress, oh and i went to the shop, but not the shop where Gemma met that guy, oh that guy hes so cool, he bought Gemma a ring, it was so pretty, and then we saw Emma, not the one with black hair, does my hair look ok? i'm thinking of dyeing it, so anway what was i talking about?"
That's crazy. I'm glad I don't hang around those kinds of girls. The ones I see are silent churchy types mostly. There are chicks like that everywhere though, and basically, they're retarded.

Just makes me want to rip a big fart right on their head.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mundane trivialities are pretty standard female thought pattern.

Sorry if you were expecting more. :rock:
 
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