Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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whats in womens mind

roja

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Men are always thinking of Sex/Money/Politics

Top things women think most of the time
Drama /Relationships
what else ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pie in the Sky

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I think men pretty much think about things related to power and respect.

Women think about all their current relationships. Their life revolves around them.

Both think about sex.
 

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i always have food on my mind.
what do i need to make for dinner... what to eat for lunch...
 

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i always have food on my mind.
what do i need to make for dinner... what to eat for lunch...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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I'm a man, and here's my hierarchy:

1. Money/Business Development/Entrepreneurial Pursuits/Achievement
2. My Mindset itself: Cultivating Self-Determination, Confidence, Courage
3. Living up to my own Standards
4. Sex/hot chicks/further cultivating an abundance of hot poon mentality
 
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Perfect responses

BobMo' said:
Men think about women and women think about themselves.

Desdinova said:
Agreed 100%

Also, women don't usually think like men do. They obsess, dwell, and fantasize.
 

Sir Juanalot

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You can tell how women think by how they speak.

"Then i was with Stacey who bought this dress, oh and i went to the shop, but not the shop where Gemma met that guy, oh that guy hes so cool, he bought Gemma a ring, it was so pretty, and then we saw Emma, not the one with black hair, does my hair look ok? i'm thinking of dyeing it, so anway what was i talking about?"
 

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Sir Juanalot said:
You can tell how women think by how they speak.

"Then i was with Stacey who bought this dress, oh and i went to the shop, but not the shop where Gemma met that guy, oh that guy hes so cool, he bought Gemma a ring, it was so pretty, and then we saw Emma, not the one with black hair, does my hair look ok? i'm thinking of dyeing it, so anway what was i talking about?"
That's crazy. I'm glad I don't hang around those kinds of girls. The ones I see are silent churchy types mostly. There are chicks like that everywhere though, and basically, they're retarded.

Just makes me want to rip a big fart right on their head.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mundane trivialities are pretty standard female thought pattern.

Sorry if you were expecting more. :rock:
 
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