"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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whats in womens mind

roja

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Men are always thinking of Sex/Money/Politics

Top things women think most of the time
Drama /Relationships
what else ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pie in the Sky

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I think men pretty much think about things related to power and respect.

Women think about all their current relationships. Their life revolves around them.

Both think about sex.
 

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i always have food on my mind.
what do i need to make for dinner... what to eat for lunch...
 

penkitten

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i always have food on my mind.
what do i need to make for dinner... what to eat for lunch...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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I'm a man, and here's my hierarchy:

1. Money/Business Development/Entrepreneurial Pursuits/Achievement
2. My Mindset itself: Cultivating Self-Determination, Confidence, Courage
3. Living up to my own Standards
4. Sex/hot chicks/further cultivating an abundance of hot poon mentality
 
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Perfect responses

BobMo' said:
Men think about women and women think about themselves.

Desdinova said:
Agreed 100%

Also, women don't usually think like men do. They obsess, dwell, and fantasize.
 

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You can tell how women think by how they speak.

"Then i was with Stacey who bought this dress, oh and i went to the shop, but not the shop where Gemma met that guy, oh that guy hes so cool, he bought Gemma a ring, it was so pretty, and then we saw Emma, not the one with black hair, does my hair look ok? i'm thinking of dyeing it, so anway what was i talking about?"
 

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Sir Juanalot said:
You can tell how women think by how they speak.

"Then i was with Stacey who bought this dress, oh and i went to the shop, but not the shop where Gemma met that guy, oh that guy hes so cool, he bought Gemma a ring, it was so pretty, and then we saw Emma, not the one with black hair, does my hair look ok? i'm thinking of dyeing it, so anway what was i talking about?"
That's crazy. I'm glad I don't hang around those kinds of girls. The ones I see are silent churchy types mostly. There are chicks like that everywhere though, and basically, they're retarded.

Just makes me want to rip a big fart right on their head.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mundane trivialities are pretty standard female thought pattern.

Sorry if you were expecting more. :rock:
 
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