"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
whats in womens mind
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Pie in the Sky
Don Juan
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Women think about all their current relationships. Their life revolves around them.
Both think about sex.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
what do i need to make for dinner... what to eat for lunch...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
what do i need to make for dinner... what to eat for lunch...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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2. My Mindset itself: Cultivating Self-Determination, Confidence, Courage
3. Living up to my own Standards
4. Sex/hot chicks/further cultivating an abundance of hot poon mentality
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
BobMo' said:
Desdinova said:
Sir Juanalot
Senior Don Juan
"Then i was with Stacey who bought this dress, oh and i went to the shop, but not the shop where Gemma met that guy, oh that guy hes so cool, he bought Gemma a ring, it was so pretty, and then we saw Emma, not the one with black hair, does my hair look ok? i'm thinking of dyeing it, so anway what was i talking about?"
Poonani Maker
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That's crazy. I'm glad I don't hang around those kinds of girls. The ones I see are silent churchy types mostly. There are chicks like that everywhere though, and basically, they're retarded.Sir Juanalot said:
Just makes me want to rip a big fart right on their head.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KontrollerX
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Sorry if you were expecting more. :rock: