"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Whats Her Problem?

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hey guys

so at school i gave this chick the ljbf's and it worked out well for 1 day last week, then she started *****ing that i was ignoring her...

ok tell me if what iam doing is ignoring her:

i see her in corridors i just smile politely and keep on going where ever the hell im going, i see her in class ill make some small chat (rarely however, i really dont like talking to her as much now- this is normal for a little while though isnt it?)

now i like flirting with most girls at my school, well the ones worth flirting with and today she saw me flirting with a certain girl and the next class we had together she passes me a note saying "why are you ignoring me blach blah blah, i just thought i'd get this off my chest, blah blah blah"

my reaction to this was very minimal i was just thinking WTF does she want me to do? i like girls to work for my attention and this chick just thinks cause we've hooked up in the past im going to drop everything im doing when ever i see her and give her the attention she seeks?

so advice please guys?

thankyou.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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This is a good sign. This is her telling you that she's obviously jealous of other girls getting what she COULD have. The trick is to earn some more points now by flirting with her, but always running the conversation. There should never be a time when you do not feel like you have control of what is said. She should be the one laughing and in awe, not you. Girls want to be filled with funny and positive thoughts, they don't like filling us up with them. With that said, do not come off as caring too much. Show her you are a funny, unique guy who can make her feel good and then step away and let her think about it for a few days.
 
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If she asks:
"Making friends, meeting girls...the usual stuff. Thats good right? Comon, you should be happy for me. I mean, that's what a good friend would do...Thanks anyway, crap, I really gotta go, Jane *Insert Girl's Name Here* is waiting for me. Listen, it was great talking to you, call me later."
Just run it through, pause for breaths, but just ignore her replies. Sends a great signal. After that, you can reinitiate contact in a flirting manner.

-Damian
 
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hmm well today at school i flirted with her a little, we talked a bit and then she went a bit defensive and asked me where my girlfriend from yesterday was (chick she saw me flirting with yesterday) i simply replied "shes around...somewhere" gave her a wink and walked off
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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penkitten said:
stop playing mind games with her.
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She's jealous and seemingly very attracted; it has nothing to do with "mind games."
 
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DJ4Real said:
She's jealous and seemingly very attracted; it has nothing to do with "mind games."
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you titled this thread "whats her problem"?
her problem is that you are playing a mind game called "hot and cold".
you have hooked up in the past with her and now you are ignoring her acting as if you have never hooked up with her and you are only friends.
you are sending her the message that she isnt important and that you could care less for her. as a desperate attempt to get your attention (with what she will refer to as "finding out what is going on") she writes you a note and wants to know why you are ignoring her.
either you like her or you dont like her. just tell her and stop trying to make her feel jealous, because she might not chase you forever and just might set her sights on someone else.
 
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If you want her, you have her in a good position. Just keep the flirting on until she's begging for you. Then bone her.

If you don't want her, this is just fine. Just make sure to ignore her so the b!tching stops.
 
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penkitten said:
you titled this thread "whats her problem"?
her problem is that you are playing a mind game called "hot and cold".
you have hooked up in the past with her and now you are ignoring her acting as if you have never hooked up with her and you are only friends.
you are sending her the message that she isnt important and that you could care less for her. as a desperate attempt to get your attention (with what she will refer to as "finding out what is going on") she writes you a note and wants to know why you are ignoring her.
either you like her or you dont like her. just tell her and stop trying to make her feel jealous, because she might not chase you forever and just might set her sights on someone else.
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Actually, I didn't title anything..I'm not even in this situation..This is Casanova's topic and situation....I'd very highly suggest that you read before you post...and It's not a mind game...of course, if you are a girl, then you would more than likely take it as a mind game. Don't try to blame him for someone else's jealousy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i meant he titled the thread.

and yes it is a mind game. if she were doing it to him, you would be telling him it was a mind game. it doesnt seem like shes very jealous, she just doesnt really know what is going on. here he is hooking up with her and then ignoring her afterwards and it appears that he used her in this girls eyes. then he is flirting with other girls in front of her so he can make her jealous, which just makes this girl wonder wtf is going on.
 
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penkitten said:
i meant he titled the thread.

and yes it is a mind game. if she were doing it to him, you would be telling him it was a mind game. it doesnt seem like shes very jealous, she just doesnt really know what is going on. here he is hooking up with her and then ignoring her afterwards and it appears that he used her in this girls eyes. then he is flirting with other girls in front of her so he can make her jealous, which just makes this girl wonder wtf is going on.
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Nah, I wouldn't say that it was a "mind game" if it were visa versa.

Her wondering "wtf is going on"....that's called mystery. Mystery is an element of attraction.
 
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