"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DA KID

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I know I shouldn't clog up the forum with more sappy post but I needed help. I don't know what's happinning to me. I'm a junior right now and my life has changed. Before freshman and soph year I used to be really popular hung out with everyone didn't have a care did okay in school and was real liked. Now this year I don't know what's happenning I'm not hanging out with as many people. My grade has gone down the drain like crazy to the point were I might get kicked out. I don't talk to as many people no more. I used to talk to some many people after school now I'm lucky if anyone calls to talk no more. Plus alot of my friends have changed trying to be what their not so I dont hang with them no more. Could that be the problem damn I don't know what to do no more. My life has become nothing how can i get my life back on track. I feel alone when I'm at home I want to be at school and when I'm at school I want to be at home. I don't know what's going on.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fenderules

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its change, its the change in school and part of growing up. My marks shot down 2 and a lotta stuff happened friend wise. I got emo about it and got worse until i pulled myself up in my senior year. Just dont be emo about, if ppl give you **** dont take it cause more ppl will walk over you and girls think your a joke. Gain more confidence and make new friends that are more like you
 

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Sounds so easy huh Fender?

Da Kid, worry not, the breaking point is coming.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Sounds so easy huh Fender?

Da Kid, worry not, the breaking point is coming.
What do u mean the breaking pt is coming and thx for your adivice fender
 

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I am a junior too. The same thing happened to me a couple of years ago. You just got to worry about yourself. Get good grades (i like to think of my GPA as my level of caring), maybe get a job to eat up some of that free time you have been using to beat yourself up on. Go get a gym pass and work out. All these things lead to self confidence and confidence attracts people. Its easy, you just got to do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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