"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's Happennin Need help

DA KID

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I know I shouldn't clog up the forum with more sappy post but I needed help. I don't know what's happinning to me. I'm a junior right now and my life has changed. Before freshman and soph year I used to be really popular hung out with everyone didn't have a care did okay in school and was real liked. Now this year I don't know what's happenning I'm not hanging out with as many people. My grade has gone down the drain like crazy to the point were I might get kicked out. I don't talk to as many people no more. I used to talk to some many people after school now I'm lucky if anyone calls to talk no more. Plus alot of my friends have changed trying to be what their not so I dont hang with them no more. Could that be the problem damn I don't know what to do no more. My life has become nothing how can i get my life back on track. I feel alone when I'm at home I want to be at school and when I'm at school I want to be at home. I don't know what's going on.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fenderules

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its change, its the change in school and part of growing up. My marks shot down 2 and a lotta stuff happened friend wise. I got emo about it and got worse until i pulled myself up in my senior year. Just dont be emo about, if ppl give you **** dont take it cause more ppl will walk over you and girls think your a joke. Gain more confidence and make new friends that are more like you
 

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Sounds so easy huh Fender?

Da Kid, worry not, the breaking point is coming.
 

DA KID

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Sounds so easy huh Fender?

Da Kid, worry not, the breaking point is coming.
What do u mean the breaking pt is coming and thx for your adivice fender
 

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I am a junior too. The same thing happened to me a couple of years ago. You just got to worry about yourself. Get good grades (i like to think of my GPA as my level of caring), maybe get a job to eat up some of that free time you have been using to beat yourself up on. Go get a gym pass and work out. All these things lead to self confidence and confidence attracts people. Its easy, you just got to do it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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