I'm just wondering what's going on. It seems as if someone's either deleting my posts here on "The Mature Man Forum" or simply moving them to places where they can't be found. I noticed that with my first post about two weeks ago, which had to do with both some of the positive and negative attention men get for being muscular. The other one I posted just on Monday, about the two women I met last weekend, seems to have disappeared. I'm just curious as to what's going on.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What's Happening to My Posts On This Part of The Forum?
- Thread starter Frank2500
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I get that a lot here too. I'll post here, and some clown moves it to another forum.
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I appreciate this feedback, LadiesMan. I think I'll stop posting on this part of the forum. As a matter of fact, I think I should take a break from this entire forum for a while and just focus on my hobbies and on trying to meet good women.
I appreciate this feedback, LadiesMan. I think I'll stop posting on this part of the forum. As a matter of fact, I think I should take a break from this entire forum for a while and just focus on my hobbies and on trying to meet good women.
Guys,
Please make sure your age ahows up on your profile. This forum is reserved for Mature men 25 and over.
If the Mods don't see your age on your profile it may be moved to the discussion forum.
We are trying to weed out the kids (under 25 year olds) who insist that they are mature enough to post here.
Thanks for the help.
Please make sure your age ahows up on your profile. This forum is reserved for Mature men 25 and over.
If the Mods don't see your age on your profile it may be moved to the discussion forum.
We are trying to weed out the kids (under 25 year olds) who insist that they are mature enough to post here.
Thanks for the help.
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rakishness
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What if you are a younger guy who just wants advice from the older guys on this forum? Can you post here? I mean the older guys have great things to provide because of their experience. They've seen it all. If you post on the discussion forum you'll end up getting advice from some kid who could be 16. Just my thoughts.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I totally understand.
Just post your question in the discussion forum and PM the posters that you want to respond to your post. I'm sure ladiesman will help you out if you have a question.rakishness said:What if you are a younger guy who just wants advice from the older guys on this forum? Can you post here? I mean the older guys have great things to provide because of their experience. They've seen it all. If you post on the discussion forum you'll end up getting advice from some kid who could be 16. Just my thoughts.
I'm sure the guys don't want a bunch of high schoolers in here. That would defeat the purpose of having a seperate forum for the Mature (older) men.
Survivor suggested this when he was a Moderator.