I'm just wondering what's going on. It seems as if someone's either deleting my posts here on "The Mature Man Forum" or simply moving them to places where they can't be found. I noticed that with my first post about two weeks ago, which had to do with both some of the positive and negative attention men get for being muscular. The other one I posted just on Monday, about the two women I met last weekend, seems to have disappeared. I'm just curious as to what's going on.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What's Happening to My Posts On This Part of The Forum?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I get that a lot here too. I'll post here, and some clown moves it to another forum.
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I appreciate this feedback, LadiesMan. I think I'll stop posting on this part of the forum. As a matter of fact, I think I should take a break from this entire forum for a while and just focus on my hobbies and on trying to meet good women.
I appreciate this feedback, LadiesMan. I think I'll stop posting on this part of the forum. As a matter of fact, I think I should take a break from this entire forum for a while and just focus on my hobbies and on trying to meet good women.
Guys,
Please make sure your age ahows up on your profile. This forum is reserved for Mature men 25 and over.
If the Mods don't see your age on your profile it may be moved to the discussion forum.
We are trying to weed out the kids (under 25 year olds) who insist that they are mature enough to post here.
Thanks for the help.
Please make sure your age ahows up on your profile. This forum is reserved for Mature men 25 and over.
If the Mods don't see your age on your profile it may be moved to the discussion forum.
We are trying to weed out the kids (under 25 year olds) who insist that they are mature enough to post here.
Thanks for the help.
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rakishness
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What if you are a younger guy who just wants advice from the older guys on this forum? Can you post here? I mean the older guys have great things to provide because of their experience. They've seen it all. If you post on the discussion forum you'll end up getting advice from some kid who could be 16. Just my thoughts.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I totally understand.
Just post your question in the discussion forum and PM the posters that you want to respond to your post. I'm sure ladiesman will help you out if you have a question.rakishness said:What if you are a younger guy who just wants advice from the older guys on this forum? Can you post here? I mean the older guys have great things to provide because of their experience. They've seen it all. If you post on the discussion forum you'll end up getting advice from some kid who could be 16. Just my thoughts.
I'm sure the guys don't want a bunch of high schoolers in here. That would defeat the purpose of having a seperate forum for the Mature (older) men.
Survivor suggested this when he was a Moderator.