I'm just wondering what's going on. It seems as if someone's either deleting my posts here on "The Mature Man Forum" or simply moving them to places where they can't be found. I noticed that with my first post about two weeks ago, which had to do with both some of the positive and negative attention men get for being muscular. The other one I posted just on Monday, about the two women I met last weekend, seems to have disappeared. I'm just curious as to what's going on.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What's Happening to My Posts On This Part of The Forum?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I get that a lot here too. I'll post here, and some clown moves it to another forum.
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I appreciate this feedback, LadiesMan. I think I'll stop posting on this part of the forum. As a matter of fact, I think I should take a break from this entire forum for a while and just focus on my hobbies and on trying to meet good women.
I appreciate this feedback, LadiesMan. I think I'll stop posting on this part of the forum. As a matter of fact, I think I should take a break from this entire forum for a while and just focus on my hobbies and on trying to meet good women.
Guys,
Please make sure your age ahows up on your profile. This forum is reserved for Mature men 25 and over.
If the Mods don't see your age on your profile it may be moved to the discussion forum.
We are trying to weed out the kids (under 25 year olds) who insist that they are mature enough to post here.
Thanks for the help.
Please make sure your age ahows up on your profile. This forum is reserved for Mature men 25 and over.
If the Mods don't see your age on your profile it may be moved to the discussion forum.
We are trying to weed out the kids (under 25 year olds) who insist that they are mature enough to post here.
Thanks for the help.
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rakishness
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What if you are a younger guy who just wants advice from the older guys on this forum? Can you post here? I mean the older guys have great things to provide because of their experience. They've seen it all. If you post on the discussion forum you'll end up getting advice from some kid who could be 16. Just my thoughts.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I totally understand.
Just post your question in the discussion forum and PM the posters that you want to respond to your post. I'm sure ladiesman will help you out if you have a question.rakishness said:What if you are a younger guy who just wants advice from the older guys on this forum? Can you post here? I mean the older guys have great things to provide because of their experience. They've seen it all. If you post on the discussion forum you'll end up getting advice from some kid who could be 16. Just my thoughts.
I'm sure the guys don't want a bunch of high schoolers in here. That would defeat the purpose of having a seperate forum for the Mature (older) men.
Survivor suggested this when he was a Moderator.