“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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whats going threw my girlfriends head

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My girlfriend of a couple weeks decided she would rather go to a friends house and watch a movie(lame) with her friends than come back to my house(bedroom) after our midwinter dance. We had a pretty good evening up until that point. I just don't know where I went wrong in not being able to isolate her and what I should think of this. Tomarrow going to be ignoring her some at our swim meet to see what she does. Any insight on this would be nice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was her friend a chick and if so how can you be sure she really went to that chick friend's house?
 

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Yea her friend is a chick but there were some guys there too. Not worried about them they are just friends to her and i know she went there because i dropped her off there.
 

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She just really just ****ed me over tonight becasue if i was single i could of left with whatever girl i had the best time with but instead I have a girlfriend and she didnt feel like spending a little alone time with me.
 

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Well if she keeps p!ssing you off just do what chicks do and get a little something on the side and if it proves to be better cut the dead weight.

Also about the guys being at her friends house...

Always keep in mind dude that even if you look at some guys and say what a bunch of douche bags and think to yourself they are harmless a girl ie your girl may not view them the same way.

Just something to keep in mind.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So, after the dance she wanted to go to her friends house to watch a movie... Were you invited and why didn't you watch it with her? Did you just not want to hang out with them? But, she came back to your place for bedroom time. Did you fvck her? Was she being extra pleasurable to you or acting out of the ordinary after being with her friends? Maybe, you should put you foot down and said; "No, we are doing 'this' tonight."

If you can answer my questions there may be something more behinde the situation.
 

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john paul said:
She just really just ****ed me over tonight becasue if i was single i could of left with whatever girl i had the best time with but instead I have a girlfriend and she didnt feel like spending a little alone time with me.
Well since you're complaining about not bringing a random girl home even though you claim you could means that's what you really wanted anyways. Why do you have a girlfriend if you can just pick up a chick and get with her when that's all you want to do?
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
So, after the dance she wanted to go to her friends house to watch a movie... Were you invited and why didn't you watch it with her? Did you just not want to hang out with them? But, she came back to your place for bedroom time. Did you fvck her? Was she being extra pleasurable to you or acting out of the ordinary after being with her friends? Maybe, you should put you foot down and said; "No, we are doing 'this' tonight."
Yea I was invited but shes in the grade below me and I dont enjoy hanging out with her friends, and no she didnt come over later that night. After dropping her off I made the most of my night and went to a party my friend was having which was good but not as good as some *****.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Well if she keeps p!ssing you off just do what chicks do and get a little something on the side and if it proves to be better cut the dead weight.

Also about the guys being at her friends house...

Always keep in mind dude that even if you look at some guys and say what a bunch of douche bags and think to yourself they are harmless a girl ie your girl may not view them the same way.

Just something to keep in mind.
Yea thanks for reminding me and there was accually was an ex of hers there which I dont like but someone would tell me if she did anything which i know she wouldn't. I'v made it clear I don't give second chances and I know she likes me a lot, thats why i wasnt worried when she said guys were there but ill be sure to ask my friend, who was there, if she was talking to her ex any.
 

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BoredDude said:
Well since you're complaining about not bringing a random girl home even though you claim you could means that's what you really wanted anyways. Why do you have a girlfriend if you can just pick up a chick and get with her when that's all you want to do?
Because i like this girl more than other girls. Shes a little bit more than a piece of ass to me.



Its just this was the first time I accually had a girlfriend to take to a school dance and the first time I didn't get any *****. I dont know that just seems a little backward to me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lmfao.

I don't think it's going anywhere, personally.

Up to you what to do. Did she know you were expecting sex? Maybe she just wasn't up for it, and doesn't know how to go about telling you directly.

You seem to have pretty high interest level -- I wouldn't ignore her per-se, but I'd let her know that you want her to show more commitment, and that you are becoming frustrated. See what her reaction is -- is it defensive? Or does she take this information and try to apply it? Only one is the response of a true keeper -- and if she isn't one -- like someone said before, you seem to be more interested in a singles party style, anyway.
 

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Yea thanks for the input I think I got it under control after seeing her today.
Shes a keeper,
for now.
 
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