"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Um well I've been talkin' to this girl at school a month and a half.Today for some weird reason she seemed like she was trying to avoid me or something.I don't know what's going on...whether she heard something or what.I couldn't talk to her because she was always with her friends.I was tryin' to walk her to class and one of the teachers that knew we were together & what not tried to tell her you know there's your boyfriend and she sort blew him off...now what the F***?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I call to see what her problem is...or just blow it off.I mean she might be getting ready to break up with me and if so should I break up with her first?
 
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Well first off, are you talking to her, or is this your girlfriend. Because if you're talking to her. There's no breaking up and you'd look like a serious ass if you broke up with her and she said we wer never dating.

Secondly give her some space. If she didnt want to talk today thats fine for now.
 
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She's my girlfriend so I should give some space.The stuff she did today really pissed me off for some reason.
 
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ehh..it happens. She might be "eggy" so if its gone tomorrow don't worry. If it keeps going on you might want to ask whats up. If she still ignores you. Move along.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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for some weird reason she seemed like she was trying to avoid me or something.I don't know what's going on...whether she heard something or what.

My suggestion, give her the same treatment. If she wants to act distant, help her out by giving her what she wants. When she's ready, she'll approach 'you'. If she doesn't, that's one less headache to worry about.
 
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