"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Um well I've been talkin' to this girl at school a month and a half.Today for some weird reason she seemed like she was trying to avoid me or something.I don't know what's going on...whether she heard something or what.I couldn't talk to her because she was always with her friends.I was tryin' to walk her to class and one of the teachers that knew we were together & what not tried to tell her you know there's your boyfriend and she sort blew him off...now what the F***?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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Should I call to see what her problem is...or just blow it off.I mean she might be getting ready to break up with me and if so should I break up with her first?
 
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Well first off, are you talking to her, or is this your girlfriend. Because if you're talking to her. There's no breaking up and you'd look like a serious ass if you broke up with her and she said we wer never dating.

Secondly give her some space. If she didnt want to talk today thats fine for now.
 
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She's my girlfriend so I should give some space.The stuff she did today really pissed me off for some reason.
 
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theunflushables

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ehh..it happens. She might be "eggy" so if its gone tomorrow don't worry. If it keeps going on you might want to ask whats up. If she still ignores you. Move along.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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for some weird reason she seemed like she was trying to avoid me or something.I don't know what's going on...whether she heard something or what.

My suggestion, give her the same treatment. If she wants to act distant, help her out by giving her what she wants. When she's ready, she'll approach 'you'. If she doesn't, that's one less headache to worry about.
 
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