"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Um well I've been talkin' to this girl at school a month and a half.Today for some weird reason she seemed like she was trying to avoid me or something.I don't know what's going on...whether she heard something or what.I couldn't talk to her because she was always with her friends.I was tryin' to walk her to class and one of the teachers that knew we were together & what not tried to tell her you know there's your boyfriend and she sort blew him off...now what the F***?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I call to see what her problem is...or just blow it off.I mean she might be getting ready to break up with me and if so should I break up with her first?
 
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Well first off, are you talking to her, or is this your girlfriend. Because if you're talking to her. There's no breaking up and you'd look like a serious ass if you broke up with her and she said we wer never dating.

Secondly give her some space. If she didnt want to talk today thats fine for now.
 
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She's my girlfriend so I should give some space.The stuff she did today really pissed me off for some reason.
 
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ehh..it happens. She might be "eggy" so if its gone tomorrow don't worry. If it keeps going on you might want to ask whats up. If she still ignores you. Move along.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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for some weird reason she seemed like she was trying to avoid me or something.I don't know what's going on...whether she heard something or what.

My suggestion, give her the same treatment. If she wants to act distant, help her out by giving her what she wants. When she's ready, she'll approach 'you'. If she doesn't, that's one less headache to worry about.
 
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