Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what's going on with this??

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i have never been brought to ejaculation by a girl. i've gotten with many girls and had sex many times, but never have i ***. before i started having sex i was worried about being a minute man or whatever, but that's really the least of my worries. at first i thought it was the condom, but i've hit it raw, and just had head and stuff and still nothing. this has happened countless times.

i still make sure the girl gets her share of orgasms but i'm left like wtf. it's not that i masterbate too much either because i rarely if ever do it (however i have no problem having multiple orgasms on those occasions.

so basically i just wanna know if you guys have heard anything like this before. it's not that im not attracted either--i'll stay stiff the whole time. this is kind of weak but i guess its better (for the girl atleast) than premature ejaculation. :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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RaWBLooD

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this is the opposite of the problem most men got, but you can see a sexual clinic.
 

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search my user name with can't come or something like that..

i've answered this question alot of times.. there will be many different explanations on the same thing..

long story short, i was in your situation. got a girlfriend, ****ed her raw for 3 months before i blew.

the day i blew, we ****ed again 20 minutes later and i blew again.

it is a sub concious problem with nerves.
 

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same prollem here, been told it's nerves.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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