"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what's going on with this??

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i have never been brought to ejaculation by a girl. i've gotten with many girls and had sex many times, but never have i ***. before i started having sex i was worried about being a minute man or whatever, but that's really the least of my worries. at first i thought it was the condom, but i've hit it raw, and just had head and stuff and still nothing. this has happened countless times.

i still make sure the girl gets her share of orgasms but i'm left like wtf. it's not that i masterbate too much either because i rarely if ever do it (however i have no problem having multiple orgasms on those occasions.

so basically i just wanna know if you guys have heard anything like this before. it's not that im not attracted either--i'll stay stiff the whole time. this is kind of weak but i guess its better (for the girl atleast) than premature ejaculation. :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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this is the opposite of the problem most men got, but you can see a sexual clinic.
 
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quest

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search my user name with can't come or something like that..

i've answered this question alot of times.. there will be many different explanations on the same thing..

long story short, i was in your situation. got a girlfriend, ****ed her raw for 3 months before i blew.

the day i blew, we ****ed again 20 minutes later and i blew again.

it is a sub concious problem with nerves.
 
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same prollem here, been told it's nerves.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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