"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what's going on with this??

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i have never been brought to ejaculation by a girl. i've gotten with many girls and had sex many times, but never have i ***. before i started having sex i was worried about being a minute man or whatever, but that's really the least of my worries. at first i thought it was the condom, but i've hit it raw, and just had head and stuff and still nothing. this has happened countless times.

i still make sure the girl gets her share of orgasms but i'm left like wtf. it's not that i masterbate too much either because i rarely if ever do it (however i have no problem having multiple orgasms on those occasions.

so basically i just wanna know if you guys have heard anything like this before. it's not that im not attracted either--i'll stay stiff the whole time. this is kind of weak but i guess its better (for the girl atleast) than premature ejaculation. :(
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RaWBLooD

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this is the opposite of the problem most men got, but you can see a sexual clinic.
 

quest

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search my user name with can't come or something like that..

i've answered this question alot of times.. there will be many different explanations on the same thing..

long story short, i was in your situation. got a girlfriend, ****ed her raw for 3 months before i blew.

the day i blew, we ****ed again 20 minutes later and i blew again.

it is a sub concious problem with nerves.
 

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same prollem here, been told it's nerves.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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