"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what's going on with this??

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i have never been brought to ejaculation by a girl. i've gotten with many girls and had sex many times, but never have i ***. before i started having sex i was worried about being a minute man or whatever, but that's really the least of my worries. at first i thought it was the condom, but i've hit it raw, and just had head and stuff and still nothing. this has happened countless times.

i still make sure the girl gets her share of orgasms but i'm left like wtf. it's not that i masterbate too much either because i rarely if ever do it (however i have no problem having multiple orgasms on those occasions.

so basically i just wanna know if you guys have heard anything like this before. it's not that im not attracted either--i'll stay stiff the whole time. this is kind of weak but i guess its better (for the girl atleast) than premature ejaculation. :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RaWBLooD

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this is the opposite of the problem most men got, but you can see a sexual clinic.
 

quest

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search my user name with can't come or something like that..

i've answered this question alot of times.. there will be many different explanations on the same thing..

long story short, i was in your situation. got a girlfriend, ****ed her raw for 3 months before i blew.

the day i blew, we ****ed again 20 minutes later and i blew again.

it is a sub concious problem with nerves.
 

semag

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same prollem here, been told it's nerves.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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