flyingpanda505
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Topic pretty much says it all, lol
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What's a witty reply to when a girl says "its a long story"?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maximus Rex
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That's why you and me couldn't work in a relationship. I see would tend to ramble on about things.
Alexander the Great
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"It's OK if you don't want to tell me. I... understand."
Then switch to another topic and grab hold of it as if you've totally forgotten what she was talking about. Keep smiling in the meantime, appear as if nothing's wrong. Watch what happens. If she tries to get back to the topic and tell a little more, she's actually trying to please you now and carefully tests the waters to see if she can convince you to listen anyway. Because she thinks she insulted you with that "long story" remark. If no such thing happens, you know what time it is.
Don't offer to listen. Don't. Ever. Do That.
Not unless she's your girlfriend, or unless you want to be hers.
Then switch to another topic and grab hold of it as if you've totally forgotten what she was talking about. Keep smiling in the meantime, appear as if nothing's wrong. Watch what happens. If she tries to get back to the topic and tell a little more, she's actually trying to please you now and carefully tests the waters to see if she can convince you to listen anyway. Because she thinks she insulted you with that "long story" remark. If no such thing happens, you know what time it is.
Don't offer to listen. Don't. Ever. Do That.
Not unless she's your girlfriend, or unless you want to be hers.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Say; Oh
Then, ask about something else.
Then, ask about something else.
+1. Don't make a big deal out of it if you truly want to know the story. She'll tell you once you don't want to know anymore. By not questioning or jumping to conclusions, you are doing what 99.9% of guys don't do - thus, setting you apart from the croud and making her think: "Wow, he remains so calm and relaxed when I don't tell him things."I.A.F.Y.B. said:
You become the prize in some sense.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
then say... "I'm gonna stick my d!ck up your arse"... works everytime!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.