flyingpanda505
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Topic pretty much says it all, lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What's a witty reply to when a girl says "its a long story"?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Maximus Rex
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That's why you and me couldn't work in a relationship. I see would tend to ramble on about things.
Alexander the Great
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"It's OK if you don't want to tell me. I... understand."
Then switch to another topic and grab hold of it as if you've totally forgotten what she was talking about. Keep smiling in the meantime, appear as if nothing's wrong. Watch what happens. If she tries to get back to the topic and tell a little more, she's actually trying to please you now and carefully tests the waters to see if she can convince you to listen anyway. Because she thinks she insulted you with that "long story" remark. If no such thing happens, you know what time it is.
Don't offer to listen. Don't. Ever. Do That.
Not unless she's your girlfriend, or unless you want to be hers.
Then switch to another topic and grab hold of it as if you've totally forgotten what she was talking about. Keep smiling in the meantime, appear as if nothing's wrong. Watch what happens. If she tries to get back to the topic and tell a little more, she's actually trying to please you now and carefully tests the waters to see if she can convince you to listen anyway. Because she thinks she insulted you with that "long story" remark. If no such thing happens, you know what time it is.
Don't offer to listen. Don't. Ever. Do That.
Not unless she's your girlfriend, or unless you want to be hers.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Say; Oh
Then, ask about something else.
Then, ask about something else.
+1. Don't make a big deal out of it if you truly want to know the story. She'll tell you once you don't want to know anymore. By not questioning or jumping to conclusions, you are doing what 99.9% of guys don't do - thus, setting you apart from the croud and making her think: "Wow, he remains so calm and relaxed when I don't tell him things."I.A.F.Y.B. said:
You become the prize in some sense.
Randallpink83
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then say... "I'm gonna stick my d!ck up your arse"... works everytime!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.