"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's a good way to fight stress?

ChrizZ

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I'm totally stressed out all the time. I go through total mood changes, I'm tired most of the time, I throw up every morning and all in all it's making me physically sick.

Does anybody know some good methods to fight stress?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Exercise, listening to music, doing things you enjoy, laughter, sex, meditation, reading, yoga, balanced diet, and other numerous things. Maybe you don't drink enough water..

What do you think causes your stress? The throwing up in the morning?? Not sure about that one.
 

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im rarely ever stressed. i think what helps me is having the right mindset. nothings impossible for you to handle man, dont waste your energy worrying bout stuff
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Exercise, listening to music, doing things you enjoy, laughter, sex, meditation, reading, yoga, balanced diet, and other numerous things. Maybe you don't drink enough water..

What do you think causes your stress? The throwing up in the morning?? Not sure about that one.
Well, basically I moved away to a different country, left everything behind and live on my own now. Also I got a lot of stress with college and I'm still an AFC when it comes to women. I wanna change all that soon, though. Thanks for the tips guys.
 

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An hour of cardio will take down your cortisol levels decreasing stress.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i am me

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everything I.A.F.Y.B. said will help. outta all of those im sure youd prolly look at meditation and be like uhhh...but you really should try it. it helps you feel relaxed and focused and it only takes 5-10 mins...

learningmediation.com

try it
 

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when you get stress close your eyes and repeat out loud 10 times "I'm a pretty little princess."

that will calm you down and probably get you to chuckle to yourself.
 

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listening to music and reading at the same time helps man. and like others have said so does meditating.
 

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You are stressed because your location is between my legs. Find a woman!!

kiddin.. you'll need to first know why you are stressed! Is there something you desire from life, that you aint gettin?? any particular event that is responsible?
 

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joekerr31 said:
when you get stress close your eyes and repeat out loud 10 times "I'm a pretty little princess."

that will calm you down and probably get you to chuckle to yourself.
oh man I didn't expect that to work, I can't even say it twice without laughing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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