Whats a good response?

[milton]

So basically, I gamed this girl this past weekend that was an 8.5, had a great conversation and her dream school is the one I am currently at. She will probably visit over the summer and I want to do this right. I have her number and she told me to facebook her so I did. She replied with a

"hey! it was good talking to you this weekend.. are you back at berkeley now?"

I want to have response that will prompt more converstaion somehow because I dont want this to be another "2 facebook wallpost and never talk again" thing. Should I reiterate something we talked about? Joke? Tell her to hit me up when she visits?

Whats the best way to approach this? God she has nice breasties. Thanks in advance.

 

[3rdeye]

you got her number right? forget facebook then, its way to impersonal. call her up talk to her instead of using text.

 

[milton]

Hmm... I guess this is my sticking point... I only talked with her for like 30-40 minutes this past weekend so I think it would be kinda weird for me to call her out of the blue especially because I am back at school now and 500 miles away. If I do call her do I make an excuse as to why I am calling her? lol. I dont know how to handle this.

 

[3rdeye]

excuse for calling? you dont need an excuse just a reason to invite her back, use ur imagination. tell her that she really piqued ur interest and wanted to meet up again. but dont use word for word what i said put it in your style that works for you. give her a reason to come back to you is what im trying to say i guess. if not keep you girls local its easier to connect.

 

[Wodan]

excuse for calling? you dont need an excuse just a reason to invite her back, use ur imagination. tell her that she really piqued ur interest and wanted to meet up again. but dont use word for word what i said put it in your style that works for you. give her a reason to come back to you is what im trying to say i guess. if not keep you girls local its easier to connect.

Totally agree with the post, ring her and give NO excuse, ring her when your in a good and fun mood and talk about something your both in2 or whatever.

When a girl first moves to university, I notice theyre incredibly open to finding a bf and often get into intense relationships with people, you could set yourself up with her pretty easily if you dont overcomplicate this and think negatively, Good luck!

 

[milton]

damnit... my confidence just isnt there yet... which is ironic because I can talk to her fine when I am talking face to face...

but yeah im not even gonna make an excuse why I shouldnt call her... im just gonna be frank and say I dont have the confidence because i have never done it before... fudgepacker... yap this is my sticking point...

if I do decide to grow some balls one of these days... i will let you guys know ... haha ...

 

[Social Calibration]

Just call her dude, don't over think it. I know this used to be one of my biggest problem. Now I call her just to say what's up and how the weather inspired me to put a cowboy hat on and I just had to share that with her.

Lol seriously, if you can laugh at yourself you're fine. Don't be afraid to escalate and move it up a notch when you talk to her, if she denies it play it off like it was nothing, which it shouldn't be.