RichardTheFrog
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Generally speaking... After a slight insult.
Girls like a$$holes, right? So what should I say?
Girls like a$$holes, right? So what should I say?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What's a good response when a girl calls you an a$$hole?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RichardTheFrog
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I tried:
"Come give me some sloppy head. Or do you need to be taught how?"
Let's see what happens.
"Come give me some sloppy head. Or do you need to be taught how?"
Let's see what happens.
dustmuffin
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say and your point is? or tell me something I don't know....
RichardTheFrog
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RichardTheFrog
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They usually laugh too and then I continue flirting.
You really need to start experimenting through trial and error with women. You can only learn so much on here. The game is played on the field.
RichardTheFrog
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Well I haven't heard back from the girl I messaged. And she did read it.
dustmuffin
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you say nothing. She will either be silent or if she says something just smile.
RichardTheFrog
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dustmuffin
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We weren't talking about sex. You wanted to know what to say if a girl called you an a ss hole. I did that. Have you read the DJ bible? Read it.....
RichardTheFrog
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Everything you say to a girl is about sex, or should be leading there.
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Magotrox
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So, go for the next girl, my friend... don't heat your head with one girl... there are others... better ones for you to invest your time...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dustmuffin
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If you know what to do why do you need anyone's help?
RichardTheFrog
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Differing opinions? Idk.
What I said didn't work, but guess you can't win them all.
RichardTheFrog
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These are all clever/funny responses, but they don't lead to sex, imo. They just leave everything out there.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.