RichardTheFrog
Banned
Generally speaking... After a slight insult.
Girls like a$$holes, right? So what should I say?
Girls like a$$holes, right? So what should I say?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
But then what?say and your point is? or tell me something I don't know....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And then what?I usually say "that's not the first time a girl has told me that" and then I laugh.
They usually laugh too and then I continue flirting.And then what?
Isn't it up to you to make the next move?
Well I haven't heard back from the girl I messaged. And she did read it.They usually laugh too and then I continue flirting.
You really need to start experimenting through trial and error with women. You can only learn so much on here. The game is played on the field.
you say nothing. She will either be silent or if she says something just smile.But then what?
That definitely creates a sexual vibe, but what's next?
Then how to go from silence to sex?you say nothing. She will either be silent or if she says something just smile.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
We weren't talking about sex. You wanted to know what to say if a girl called you an a ss hole. I did that. Have you read the DJ bible? Read it.....Then how to go from silence to sex?
Surely, you must take some action.
Everything you say to a girl is about sex, or should be leading there.We weren't talking about sex. You wanted to know what to say if a girl called you an a ss hole. I did that. Have you read the DJ bible? Read it.....
Well I asked her to give me head. Basically same thing.A possible answer is...
Girl: You're an a$$hole.
You: I think you like me. Yeah, you wanna fvck with me.
So, go for the next girl, my friend... don't heat your head with one girl... there are others... better ones for you to invest your time...Well I asked her to give me head. Basically same thing.
Got no response.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If you know what to do why do you need anyone's help?Everything you say to a girl is about sex, or should be leading there.
Differing opinions? Idk.If you know what to do why do you need anyone's help?
These are all clever/funny responses, but they don't lead to sex, imo. They just leave everything out there.I ve always preferred sir arsehole
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.