RichardTheFrog
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Generally speaking... After a slight insult.
Girls like a$$holes, right? So what should I say?
Girls like a$$holes, right? So what should I say?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What's a good response when a girl calls you an a$$hole?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RichardTheFrog
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I tried:
"Come give me some sloppy head. Or do you need to be taught how?"
Let's see what happens.
"Come give me some sloppy head. Or do you need to be taught how?"
Let's see what happens.
dustmuffin
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say and your point is? or tell me something I don't know....
RichardTheFrog
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RichardTheFrog
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They usually laugh too and then I continue flirting.
You really need to start experimenting through trial and error with women. You can only learn so much on here. The game is played on the field.
RichardTheFrog
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Well I haven't heard back from the girl I messaged. And she did read it.
dustmuffin
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you say nothing. She will either be silent or if she says something just smile.
RichardTheFrog
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dustmuffin
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We weren't talking about sex. You wanted to know what to say if a girl called you an a ss hole. I did that. Have you read the DJ bible? Read it.....
RichardTheFrog
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Everything you say to a girl is about sex, or should be leading there.
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So, go for the next girl, my friend... don't heat your head with one girl... there are others... better ones for you to invest your time...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dustmuffin
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If you know what to do why do you need anyone's help?
RichardTheFrog
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Differing opinions? Idk.
What I said didn't work, but guess you can't win them all.
RichardTheFrog
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These are all clever/funny responses, but they don't lead to sex, imo. They just leave everything out there.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.