"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
what's a good job to get in which i can meet girls (on the job)?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
THEME PARKS ... (or similar places)_Cupcake_ said:
my whole sex/love life for a good few years ( about 4) was supplied BIG TIME from the girls i met whilst working there or at the staff social events...
even still see some of the people now and again...
- there was about 1000 people who worked there and 95% of them were aged 16 to mid-20's = so a great deal of chioce,
some of the departments were "big shaggers", i heard a rumour that in one particular department most fo them got a STD, and you could trace it back to the fisrt person acording to who had slept with who! crazy...
-peope got really wasted at social events and it was really easy to at least kiss someone
another reason why its good - they will be happy to have you back for summer work - like when your at college...
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supermarkets or department stores are prob better than most palces (as thers not many theme parks)- there will be still quite alot of young people at these , tho there are still lots of older people (and many "low lifes " often work at supermarkets ...)
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where do you live?
also how old are you? im guessing around 18-20? instead of a ful time job id suggest getting some qualifications => a better paid job => a better career = better life
Nygard
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Furyguy
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Nexus Polaris
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LOL. Okay pal. At this point in the game. I know what to do on and off a job. I don't think the OP doesn't if he's looking for a job just to get girls. I tell him the read the bible so he can learn game instead of trying to find a job to pick up girls.San Jose California said:
Another MAJOR clue that this place is only for Americans. Hate to burst your bubbles, but most discos/clubs on this earth are mostly girls under 21 (usually 16-20 years old is average - this even include places like the French areas of Canada). Casinos are 18 plus.Nexus Polaris said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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However, getting involved with coworkers can be really complicate if things go wrong. I guess you know that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.