Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
THEME PARKS ... (or similar places)_Cupcake_ said:Either in terms of coworkers or customers, though coworkers preferrably.
Young girls, 18-19ish.
Like maybe a job for weekends. Or even weekdays, full time, whatever.
Any suggestions?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Oh crap... it says in the don juan bible that you shouldn't optimize your time usage by tying the need for extra money in with the intention of meeting more women? I must've missed that part.Warrior74 said:You can stop being lazy and go out and approach and meet women. Fvckin hell..every couple of months some guy wonders in here with that same lame crap. Do the work. Read the bible, make it happen.
That dude gets girls, though, and you get sh1t on.San Jose California said:All he did was ask what jobs have a lot of girls, has nothing to do with the nerdy pdf document that you follow with every ounce of faith.
LOL. Okay pal. At this point in the game. I know what to do on and off a job. I don't think the OP doesn't if he's looking for a job just to get girls. I tell him the read the bible so he can learn game instead of trying to find a job to pick up girls.San Jose California said:All he did was ask what jobs have a lot of girls, has nothing to do with the nerdy pdf document that you follow with every ounce of faith.
Another MAJOR clue that this place is only for Americans. Hate to burst your bubbles, but most discos/clubs on this earth are mostly girls under 21 (usually 16-20 years old is average - this even include places like the French areas of Canada). Casinos are 18 plus.Nexus Polaris said:Bouncer or bartender. It won't get you 18-19 for obvious legality reasons, but it'll net you plenty of 21-23.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
THIS!Warrior74 said:LOL. Okay pal. At this point in the game. I know what to do on and off a job. I don't think the OP doesn't if he's looking for a job just to get girls. I tell him the read the bible so he can learn game instead of trying to find a job to pick up girls.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.