"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
what's a good job to get in which i can meet girls (on the job)?
- Thread starter _Cupcake_
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
THEME PARKS ... (or similar places)_Cupcake_ said:
my whole sex/love life for a good few years ( about 4) was supplied BIG TIME from the girls i met whilst working there or at the staff social events...
even still see some of the people now and again...
- there was about 1000 people who worked there and 95% of them were aged 16 to mid-20's = so a great deal of chioce,
some of the departments were "big shaggers", i heard a rumour that in one particular department most fo them got a STD, and you could trace it back to the fisrt person acording to who had slept with who! crazy...
-peope got really wasted at social events and it was really easy to at least kiss someone
another reason why its good - they will be happy to have you back for summer work - like when your at college...
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supermarkets or department stores are prob better than most palces (as thers not many theme parks)- there will be still quite alot of young people at these , tho there are still lots of older people (and many "low lifes " often work at supermarkets ...)
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where do you live?
also how old are you? im guessing around 18-20? instead of a ful time job id suggest getting some qualifications => a better paid job => a better career = better life
Nygard
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Furyguy
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nexus Polaris
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LOL. Okay pal. At this point in the game. I know what to do on and off a job. I don't think the OP doesn't if he's looking for a job just to get girls. I tell him the read the bible so he can learn game instead of trying to find a job to pick up girls.San Jose California said:
Another MAJOR clue that this place is only for Americans. Hate to burst your bubbles, but most discos/clubs on this earth are mostly girls under 21 (usually 16-20 years old is average - this even include places like the French areas of Canada). Casinos are 18 plus.Nexus Polaris said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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However, getting involved with coworkers can be really complicate if things go wrong. I guess you know that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.