"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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giovannikast

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Hi
I am dating with a beautiful girl about 8 points, we went out three times, I am using ****y and Funny, Kino, and I am getting her to call me and ask me to go out. I think I am doing well with her but for some reason she called me "friend" twice, well it doesnot matter to me, but I do not know what I am doing wrong, I dont love her, but sometimes I feel bad when I do not kiss a girl the first two dates. :) :) :)
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hmm...I feel for you dude....However, if your not properly dating each other yet then what else can she call you? I mean she's not really gonna refer to you as "the guy I fancy" or "potential boyfriend"...do you see what I'm saying.

If your patient, give it time...if not then make a move! All she can say is "no"!!!! No big deal really...

Good luck!!

Macca
 
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I see your problem -- she is calling you and setting the terms of your realationship - as friends. you gave her the control!

You should be initiating the call and setting the agenda and the activity and be persuing her romantically and not as friends. Take control!
 
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No kissed during the first two dates huh? No wonder she only thinks of you as a friend. what your doing wrong here is you haven't been aggresive enough. CF and kino aren't sufficient, you were supposed to f-closed her by now. It doesn't matter the words that come from her mouth. All that matters is how her body reacts to your sexual advances.
 
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