WhatAmIDoingWrong

[giovannikast]

Hi
I am dating with a beautiful girl about 8 points, we went out three times, I am using ****y and Funny, Kino, and I am getting her to call me and ask me to go out. I think I am doing well with her but for some reason she called me "friend" twice, well it doesnot matter to me, but I do not know what I am doing wrong, I dont love her, but sometimes I feel bad when I do not kiss a girl the first two dates.
Giovanni

 

[Macca]

hmm...I feel for you dude....However, if your not properly dating each other yet then what else can she call you? I mean she's not really gonna refer to you as "the guy I fancy" or "potential boyfriend"...do you see what I'm saying.

If your patient, give it time...if not then make a move! All she can say is "no"!!!! No big deal really...

Good luck!!

Macca

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I see your problem -- she is calling you and setting the terms of your realationship - as friends. you gave her the control!

You should be initiating the call and setting the agenda and the activity and be persuing her romantically and not as friends. Take control!

 

[HuuBinh]

No kissed during the first two dates huh? No wonder she only thinks of you as a friend. what your doing wrong here is you haven't been aggresive enough. CF and kino aren't sufficient, you were supposed to f-closed her by now. It doesn't matter the words that come from her mouth. All that matters is how her body reacts to your sexual advances.