Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Intrakit98

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Alright so there's this girl who works at my office as the receptionist. She's quite attractive and I wouldn't mind getting to know her. I maintain an attitude that I could care less and have my own thing going on, which I do. However she's sending somewhat mixed signals. When I asked for her number she gave it to me which naturally means that she's interested, I get it. And when I asked her if she wanted to have coffee she said sure but that she's really busy. So I said how about I text her about the specifics. She claims that she's bad with cell phones/txts. I texted her a couple of times and she gets back to me 3 or 4 days later. I can't believe that she's really that bad with cell phones not to answer my text. I'm thinkin since this girl is attractive she has a social life, so she must use her phone to keep up with her friends right? When she texted me 4 days later she said that she was really busy. She didn't even acknowledge the fact that I wanted to meet her for coffee. When I engage in small talk she offers information about herself that I didn't ask for.
Is she really interested or should I just drop this and move on? Any insights would be helpful.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Deadly_Ripped

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You're sending multiple texts and calling her, and she's taking almost a week to get back to you, and then she's not interested in setting up any sort of arrangement to meet up.

That's called a hint. Take the hint. She's not interested.

Where is the mixed signal? That she gave you her number? You two work together, so it'd probably be pretty awkward if she refused to give it to you. Instead, she's letting you know, without being a BTCH about it, that she's not interested in seeing you outside of work.
 

Berlex

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^What he said. Drop it dude, she's not interested.

"I asked for her number she gave it to me which naturally means that she's interested" Nah, like Deadly Ripped said, it'd be pretty awkward if she didn't give it.
 

Bodhi

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Why are you posting this in the tips section? When i come here i want to read about new thoughts and ideas that helped people. Not whats causing you grief.
By the way stop trying to figure out what this or any other girl thinks of you thats why you felt the need to start this thread
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sesar

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As soon as she said that "She claims that she's bad with cell phones/txts" it was game over.. u should of known that.. no more chasing from there.
 
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