"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What you think about is what you find....

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There is some truth to this. Reticular activating system of course plays a role.

There is also a good reason to focus on and reward good behavior in women and penalize or turn your back on bad behavior.
 

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You look for passive-aggressive ellipses at the end of sentences, you find passive-aggressive ellipses at the end of sentences.

Rocky, you observed how Seneca used periods at the end of his thoughts, right?
 
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Those of you complaining that ALL women are .....
BPD
Gold diggers
Looking for the next best thing
Liars

Etc.

Don't be surprised when that is all you find....
It's how the Law of Attraction works. People think that it's some sort of magic but really what it is is your brain focuses on what you tell it to focus on. There is so much going on around you constantly that your brain filters out 99% of it based on what you tell it to.

When you actively retrain it to focus on things you want it to, suddenly they seem to appear out of thin air, but all that's happening is what you are allowing in through your filter has changed...it's been there all along you just haven't paid attention to it.
 

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I'm a big stoicism nerd, but what is this crypto seneca doing talking about cars when he lived in Ancient Rome lol

Relevant article worth a read:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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