"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1. You need to approach and gets as many numbers as you can because it gives you plates. If you can't or don't want to approach then try facebook or pof
2. You need to spin as much plates as you can and avoid losing plates because it can only hurts if you don't
3. You need to walk away and or NC as soon as plates are losing interest. In general, as long as you have plates to spin you have a chance to land all of them

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you doing these things yourself? A better thread would you be giving examples of doing these things yourself and advocating that we should as well.
 
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SmooveMooves said:
Are you doing these things yourself? A better thread would you be giving examples of doing these things yourself and advocating that we should as well.
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I didn't write it so that you'd need a phd to do these things. I wrote it with you in mind.
 
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What I was trying to say politely was that this post seemed like a KBJ thread considering the elementary advice you offered and how new your account was.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would avoid POF and Facebook. POF doesn't allow you to delete or deactivate your account. What you have to do is delete pictures and blank out answer fields. It does allow you to block messages from other users but It doesn't allow you to "hide" them.

Setup an OKC account instead. Complete the about page and details page but don't answer any of the questions. Use your best photos preferably action shots. Keep your shirt on unless you have cut six pack abs. Avoid selfies. Don't have any kids or former girlfriends in your pics and check your picture background before you post it.
 
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Are you claiming this girl to be your girlfriend? As she has 114k followers, you can understand why no one will believe you.
 
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parkthebus said:
Are you claiming this girl to be your girlfriend? As she has 114k followers, you can understand why no one will believe you.
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I never asked anyone to believe me. I simply tell the truth and let what I do speak for itself.
 
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