"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. You need to approach and gets as many numbers as you can because it gives you plates. If you can't or don't want to approach then try facebook or pof
2. You need to spin as much plates as you can and avoid losing plates because it can only hurts if you don't
3. You need to walk away and or NC as soon as plates are losing interest. In general, as long as you have plates to spin you have a chance to land all of them

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are you doing these things yourself? A better thread would you be giving examples of doing these things yourself and advocating that we should as well.
 
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SmooveMooves said:
Are you doing these things yourself? A better thread would you be giving examples of doing these things yourself and advocating that we should as well.
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I didn't write it so that you'd need a phd to do these things. I wrote it with you in mind.
 
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What I was trying to say politely was that this post seemed like a KBJ thread considering the elementary advice you offered and how new your account was.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would avoid POF and Facebook. POF doesn't allow you to delete or deactivate your account. What you have to do is delete pictures and blank out answer fields. It does allow you to block messages from other users but It doesn't allow you to "hide" them.

Setup an OKC account instead. Complete the about page and details page but don't answer any of the questions. Use your best photos preferably action shots. Keep your shirt on unless you have cut six pack abs. Avoid selfies. Don't have any kids or former girlfriends in your pics and check your picture background before you post it.
 
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Are you claiming this girl to be your girlfriend? As she has 114k followers, you can understand why no one will believe you.
 
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parkthebus said:
Are you claiming this girl to be your girlfriend? As she has 114k followers, you can understand why no one will believe you.
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I never asked anyone to believe me. I simply tell the truth and let what I do speak for itself.
 
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