"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1. You need to approach and gets as many numbers as you can because it gives you plates. If you can't or don't want to approach then try facebook or pof
2. You need to spin as much plates as you can and avoid losing plates because it can only hurts if you don't
3. You need to walk away and or NC as soon as plates are losing interest. In general, as long as you have plates to spin you have a chance to land all of them

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you doing these things yourself? A better thread would you be giving examples of doing these things yourself and advocating that we should as well.
 
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SmooveMooves said:
Are you doing these things yourself? A better thread would you be giving examples of doing these things yourself and advocating that we should as well.
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I didn't write it so that you'd need a phd to do these things. I wrote it with you in mind.
 
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What I was trying to say politely was that this post seemed like a KBJ thread considering the elementary advice you offered and how new your account was.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would avoid POF and Facebook. POF doesn't allow you to delete or deactivate your account. What you have to do is delete pictures and blank out answer fields. It does allow you to block messages from other users but It doesn't allow you to "hide" them.

Setup an OKC account instead. Complete the about page and details page but don't answer any of the questions. Use your best photos preferably action shots. Keep your shirt on unless you have cut six pack abs. Avoid selfies. Don't have any kids or former girlfriends in your pics and check your picture background before you post it.
 
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Are you claiming this girl to be your girlfriend? As she has 114k followers, you can understand why no one will believe you.
 
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parkthebus said:
Are you claiming this girl to be your girlfriend? As she has 114k followers, you can understand why no one will believe you.
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I never asked anyone to believe me. I simply tell the truth and let what I do speak for itself.
 
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