"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Walking Anomaly

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Hey all, hows like treating yas?

Anyway, i messed around a bit wit this girl last weekendm who is my friends cousin. Im kinda into her, shes really into me. Id like to hang out with her again, but she lives 2 hours away, and im a bit hesitant about whether or not it would be alright to ask my friend to bring her back again sometime soon. She had originally come down for the weekend cause it was my prom and she was my other friend's date. Would it sound desperate to her if i told my friend that id like to see her again and he relayed the message? Or since its long distance should i just forget about her? I guess if shes really into me that it wouldnt really matter, but i would personally like to see what others think about it.

Help is much appreciated :)

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ballistik

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Hell, if ya don't do anything, nothing good can come of it, right? I say either relay the message, or just get her phone number/screenname from your friend and talk to her yourself. If she's really into you, she'd probably be more than happy to spend a weekend at her cousin's house in the near future, especially with summer coming up.
 

Walking Anomaly

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ahh, my friend wont give me her screen name or anything. I asked him online and he just didnt answer, guess thats the benefit of bein online...if it were in person he would have had to say something to me, right?

I will be seeing him in person though later tonight.

Any other ideas? I could tell him just to tell her that it'd be nice to see her again. But if he wont give her screen name, whats to say that he'll actually relay a message.

Help Much appreciated :)

Peace
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NRM

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There are other girls out there. This one is a hassle, you have to first get in contact with her through your friend, then do the whole dating game trying to hook up with her bit, and when you finally do, you have a big distance gap between you two.

If it happens, great, but it shouldn't be something you pursue, especially since you only seen her for one weekend. If she had interest in you, she'll try to see you again.
 
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