"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What you guys think?

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Walking Anomaly

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Hey all, hows like treating yas?

Anyway, i messed around a bit wit this girl last weekendm who is my friends cousin. Im kinda into her, shes really into me. Id like to hang out with her again, but she lives 2 hours away, and im a bit hesitant about whether or not it would be alright to ask my friend to bring her back again sometime soon. She had originally come down for the weekend cause it was my prom and she was my other friend's date. Would it sound desperate to her if i told my friend that id like to see her again and he relayed the message? Or since its long distance should i just forget about her? I guess if shes really into me that it wouldnt really matter, but i would personally like to see what others think about it.

Help is much appreciated :)

Peace
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hell, if ya don't do anything, nothing good can come of it, right? I say either relay the message, or just get her phone number/screenname from your friend and talk to her yourself. If she's really into you, she'd probably be more than happy to spend a weekend at her cousin's house in the near future, especially with summer coming up.
 
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Walking Anomaly

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ahh, my friend wont give me her screen name or anything. I asked him online and he just didnt answer, guess thats the benefit of bein online...if it were in person he would have had to say something to me, right?

I will be seeing him in person though later tonight.

Any other ideas? I could tell him just to tell her that it'd be nice to see her again. But if he wont give her screen name, whats to say that he'll actually relay a message.

Help Much appreciated :)

Peace
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There are other girls out there. This one is a hassle, you have to first get in contact with her through your friend, then do the whole dating game trying to hook up with her bit, and when you finally do, you have a big distance gap between you two.

If it happens, great, but it shouldn't be something you pursue, especially since you only seen her for one weekend. If she had interest in you, she'll try to see you again.
 
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