"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok so I been diggin this cutie at work..
so long story short I tell her I wanna give her a massage via text..
during the massage I get her to her underwear and bra unstrapped but didn't try to touch her vajayjay for some reason.. probably because... I have a girl, but whatever

anyway I ask her the nextday.. did the massage make you horny..
she says no.. I tell her she is lying, because its no way im in bed with you and your not horny..

anyway my uncle says there is no way a chick let's you get her to her bra and panties and wont bang you..

how can I reframe this?
btw I have a girl and just want her as side coochie

btw I was on top of her back and had a raging hard bbc in het back and she says she didn't feel it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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anyway I ask her the nextday.. did the massage make you horny..
she says no..

She says this because you didnt escalate to sex. You probably got her so turned on, that the fact that you didnt go any further probably put her off...she probably thinks your a pu$$y to be honest. Always attempt to push things as far as they go...rather than come up short.
 
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you tried to communicate secksual interest overtly with someone you haven't even slept with.

This^ +1
 
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She was probably lying as some sort of ASD.

"I'm a good girl. I don't get horny during massages."

Plus she doesn't want to "give away" what turned her on.

Everybody has their own style of game, but I personal wouldn't "ask" a chick if she's horny or felt horny before. You shouldn't have to ask that. They want you to just "know" they are horny and go with it. It can be a turn off to ask.
 
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Your job as a man is to stick your sausage into her pleasure hole. If you're not going to do that.. don't even bother playing the game. Why make her strip if you're just going to watch and do nothing? Why flirt if you're not going to act?

Sh!t or get off the pot. Its not complicated.

Lots of men miss out on p*ssy simply by analyzing themselves out of it. :crackup: :crackup:

Analyze less.. take ACTION more. There are only two outcomes when you try to f*ck a girl --> She either lets you or stops you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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