what yall think

[cola]

ok so I been diggin this cutie at work..
so long story short I tell her I wanna give her a massage via text..
during the massage I get her to her underwear and bra unstrapped but didn't try to touch her vajayjay for some reason.. probably because... I have a girl, but whatever

anyway I ask her the nextday.. did the massage make you horny..
she says no.. I tell her she is lying, because its no way im in bed with you and your not horny..

anyway my uncle says there is no way a chick let's you get her to her bra and panties and wont bang you..

how can I reframe this?
btw I have a girl and just want her as side coochie

btw I was on top of her back and had a raging hard bbc in het back and she says she didn't feel it

 

[TheException]

anyway I ask her the nextday.. did the massage make you horny..
she says no..

She says this because you didnt escalate to sex. You probably got her so turned on, that the fact that you didnt go any further probably put her off...she probably thinks your a pu$$y to be honest. Always attempt to push things as far as they go...rather than come up short.

 

[TheException]

you tried to communicate secksual interest overtly with someone you haven't even slept with.

This^ +1

 

[Mike32ct]

She was probably lying as some sort of ASD.

"I'm a good girl. I don't get horny during massages."

Plus she doesn't want to "give away" what turned her on.

Everybody has their own style of game, but I personal wouldn't "ask" a chick if she's horny or felt horny before. You shouldn't have to ask that. They want you to just "know" they are horny and go with it. It can be a turn off to ask.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Your job as a man is to stick your sausage into her pleasure hole. If you're not going to do that.. don't even bother playing the game. Why make her strip if you're just going to watch and do nothing? Why flirt if you're not going to act?

Sh!t or get off the pot. Its not complicated.

Lots of men miss out on p*ssy simply by analyzing themselves out of it. :crackup: :crackup:

Analyze less.. take ACTION more. There are only two outcomes when you try to f*ck a girl --> She either lets you or stops you.